Well considering i am, for now, basically a house wife (without the wife part) i use compassion and empathy a lot. Oh and Patience. When something bad happens i try to reason and sort things out, i used to just blow up in the persons face, if they started to blow up in mine, but now i look at things from their view and reases (SP?) the situation. I have learned to be humble and do what is asked of me as in chores, and where as before i came here and started to look into Jediism, Jedi realism, Tao and Buddhism, I would complain about almost everything, saying that people are expecting to much of me at once from time to time. Now i take a step back and evaluate the situation.