Yeah, that happens a lot because once the person is gone they feel they can finally let go (or something similar). It’s funny because we think that we want to be with family and friends at that moment, but I think it’s too hard that way. Who wants to leave to something somewhat unknown when our loved ones are right there? But once they leave we can feel the pull home more clearly and can move on.
I hope everyone can move on peacefully. So many people are so scared, and that’s why I recommend Neale’s book because it takes the fear away. No one need fear death, because there’s only one place to go. Either you allow yourself to go there, or you end up in a world you created because of what you thought should happen. Or, because you can’t fully let go. My wife works with those types of people. Sometimes they live in worlds very similar to earth. Sometimes they live in nightmares created by their fears. Eventually they all return home again, even the most evil. Though it’s my understanding that their transition can take a very long time so that, from the human perspective, it doesn’t seem to happen.
Anyway…I believe that as soon as our beliefs about death changes, our beliefs about life will also change. And then our world will drastically change for the better.